Wednesday, April 29, 2009

GMCHE Conference

The Greater Milwaukee Catholic Home Educators just had their homeschool conference this past weekend and it was wonderful. I am SO impressed and pleased with all of the hard work, joy and enthusiasm that went into this conference - from the conference organizers, to the many parent and teen volunteers. Here are a few highlights (if I tried to do a post on each thing, I'd never finish).

1. Regina Doman and her husband Andrew both spoke at the conference. Our family hosted them for the weekend (I've known them for many years, particularly since Andrew's company did our web hosting for Love2learn for many years) and we really enjoyed finally meeting them in person! Good conversation was always in plentiful supply - even when we picked them up at the airport at 2:30 in the morning! (Bad weather had delayed their flight significantly.)

2. A bunch of teens in our homeschool group put on a play of Regina Doman's The Midnight Dancers, based on her book, during the conference itself. Regina was kind enough to write a script for the group herself and it was exciting to have her in the audience for the world premiere. :)





Here's a picture of the 12 sisters (two of them are my daughters). I was very impressed with the quality of the acting and directing and the attention to so many details that the kids put into the play. Bishop Callahan was in attendance and apparently really liked it!



Note: The book, the Midnight Dancers, has one scene in particular that is a bit more graphic/mature than it was in the play, and so the book may not be appropriate for younger or more sensitive readers.

3. I enjoyed meeting Andrew Pudewa for the first time. He's so funny in real life and I was surprised to realize that he knows members of both my family and my husband's family. For the second time in my life, someone has with great amazement said, "Wow. A Lawless married a Van Hecke?!"

Ria went to his high school writing intensive and enjoyed it very much.

4. Part of the fun of running our Love2learn table is that my friends who help me run it also (for the past two conferences) have organized the high school panel and set up their displays as part of our informational table. People really seem to appreciate having tables where they can just chat with experienced homeschoolers and learn about those aspects of homeschooling that you can't *buy*. Besides our display of homeschool projects, photo boards (and a DVD slide show) of various activities and awards from things like the Latin convention, we actually had a bunch of teens hanging out in the middle of our big square of tables - visiting, playing guitar and violin, reading, etc. I think they were a great witness to the joy of homeschooling.

It seems like there is much, much more to say, but I'm too tired to remember what the rest of it is at the moment! I am still updating my post on the notes from my talk. There's a very real possibility that I may be presenting it as a webinar some day not too far in the future.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009



My 11 year old daugher took this lovely picture of the tulips that are just opening up in our backyard. They've been teasing us for many weeks!

Monday, April 27, 2009

Spring Hath Sprung

And the kids are finally tackling the 100 Species Project.

They've split up into teams of two - Ria and Kate, Gus and Bernie, Terri and Frank. Each team is required to photograph and identify one plant species per school day for approximately the next month and post them to the garden blog - if they'd like to be in on a chocolate-dipped treat at the ice cream parlor at the end. Should be fun!

Final Talk Outline: Choosing Materials (in progress)

The talk was half about Choosing Materials and half about becoming a learner so that you're better prepared to choose materials (or something like that), but I had to choose the title long before I finished the talk, so I hope no one is too disappointed.

Also, I have so much about the wonderful GMCHE conference that I'd like to share, but probably after I've done a little more in the way of catching up on sleep. For now I want to post my updated outline for my talk along with the quotes I shared in the talk. Perhaps later, I'll even be able to add my stories and examples regarding particular Church teachings or particular problems that pop up in books.

Workshop: Choosing Materials That Will Work for Your Family:

Intro:

Books are tools – one part of the whole.

"It is necessary not only that religious instruction be given to the young at certain fixed times, but also that every other subject taught, be permeated with Christian piety. If this is wanting, if this sacred atmosphere does not pervade and warm the hearts of masters and scholars alike, little good can be expected from any kind of learning, and considerable harm will often be the consequence." (Leo XIII, Militantis Ecclesiae, as quoted in the encyclical On Christian Education by Pope Pius XI)
A. Catholic Truths relating to Education (and some of their consequences)

1. God is the author of all truth – no contradiction between faith and reason.

a. The God of our faith is also the creator of the world.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church #159

"Science can purify religion from error and superstition, religion can purify science from idolatry and false absolutes." Pope John Paul II
b. Don't limit the influence of faith by mistakenly thinking that we as Catholics are only interested in overtly religious things.
"No amount of pious training or pious culture will protect the faithful, or preserve them from the contamination of the age, if they are left inferior to non-Catholics in secular learning and intellectual development. The faithful must be guarded and protected by being trained and disciplined to grapple with the false systems of the age... They must be better armed than their opponents - surpass them in the strength and vigor of their minds, and in the extent and variety of their knowledge. They must, on all occasions and against all adversaries, be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in them." (Orestes Brownson)
2. The Catholic Church is a sure guide.

a. Surround yourself with some excellent materials, like a good translation of the Bible (RSV-CE is a particularly good choice) and the Catechism of the Catholic Church.

b. It is a Catholic thing to study non-Catholic things.

c. Look for the true, good and beautiful.
(Analogy with a Catholic homeschool conference).
"Children exposed to what is aesthetically and morally excellent are helped to develop appreciation, prudence and the skills of discernment. Here it is important to recognize the fundamental value of parents' example and the benefits of introducing young people to children's classics in literature, to the fine arts and to uplifting music. While popular literature will always have its place in culture, the temptation to sensationalize should not be passively accepted in places of learning. Beauty, a kind of mirror of the divine, inspires and vivifies young hearts and minds, while ugliness and coarseness have a depressing impact on attitudes and behavior." (Message for the 41st World Communications Day, Pope Benedict XVI)
3. We are made to learn, but have a fallen nature.

We are made in the image and likeness of God and thus are made to learn and to know. But we have a fallen nature that makes it difficult to train our will. This has many consequences on education. Here are a few:

Knowledge does not equal virtue. Avoid condescending materials that destroy the joy of discovery and can certainly turn people away from virtue. Children need help training their will and developing their convictions.

Beware of simplifications, like old=good (or old=bad for that matter). Sin has been with us from the beginning and every age has its own errors which people from that time period tend to be blind to. see: C.S. Lewis on old books

Clean does not equal good. Distinguishing between offensive and dangerous can be helpful.

Consider:

Some books are offensive but not dangerous.
Some are offensive and dangerous.
Some are dangerous but not offensive.

The third category is the worst because it's the most subtle and we may not even notice it.

P.S. Educational does not necessarily mean good either.

More good reading: Pope Benedict XVI "There is talk of a great 'educational emergency'."

Problem spots (indications that someone is missing the fact of fallen nature): Materials that suggest that any sort of discipline, training or limits for children are automatically bad. The truth is that they are all necessary to some degree, but should be exercised with love and prudence.

4. The Virtue lies in the Mean
(I am too tired to write this one out at the moment - I'll try to come back to it later - but it's REALLY important.)

5. Be Not Afraid
"To have Christian hope means to know about evil and yet to go to meet the future with confidence. The core of faith rests upon accepting being loved by God, and therefore to believe is to say Yes, not only to him, but to creation, to creatures, above all, to men, to try to see the image of God in each person and thereby to become a lover. That's not easy, but the basic Yes, the conviction taht God has created man, that he stands behind them, that they aren't simply negative, gives love a reference point that enables it to ground hope on the basis of faith." (Cardinal Ratzinger, Salt of the Earth)
Also see: Fear Undermines Talents, Says Pontiff

B. Developing Your Skeptometer
(tools of discernment, critical thinking)

1. Become a Learner

Your children will learn from what you learn.

You'll set a great example to them that learning is for always.

It helps build a learning environment/atmosphere.

They enjoy learning more if they do it with you (e.g. informal discussions around the dinner table).

Reality, long term goals are more important than "current events". (My suggestion is to shift some of your focus - watch less news and read more books).
"One is entitled to think that the future of humanity is in the hands of those who are capable of providing the generations to come with reasons for life and optimism." (Catechism of the Catholic Church #1917)
2. Don’t expect perfection – books are written by people.

3. Some things are black and white, some aren’t.
"In essentials unity, in non-essentials liberty, and in all things charity." (attributed to St. Augustine)
4. Recognize Your own Danger Spots

5. Look Below the Surface

6. Know your children – become their mediator and advocate

Adjust things according to their needs.

Remember the diversity of the saints.

Recommended: Learning Style Test

Beware of surrendering your entire thinking process to the experts - you need to weigh and consider each issue. cf. Listening To Experts Inhibits Decision Making

Issues

1. Somewhat harmless but annoying things.

e.g. Books that use CE and BCE instead of AD and BC.


2. inaccuracies

Recognize them, but don't always reject the book. If worthwhile overall, it can be a great teaching moment. cf. David Macaulay's Cathedral

3. bias

Half the battle is simply recognizing bias. I like to have my kids practice recognizing things by analyzing TV commercials with them and talking about what the commercials are trying to sell.

4. anti-Catholic slant vs. non-Catholic perspective

anti-Catholic examples:

Atheistic direction:
"Then suddenly all this wondering and figuring stopped. Christianity was a new religion, fighting for survival, and in A.D. 391 Christians burned the city of Alexandria and its famous libraries, which contained, along with many ancient treasures of scholarship, the work of Ptolemy. Christians did not believe in scholarship. They thought it was sacreligiuos to be curious. Anything people wanted to know, they said, could be found in the Bible." (Around the World in a Hundred Years by Jean Fritz)
Protestant direction:

"With such a lack of spiritual leadership and the Romanist emphasis on works for salvation, it is little wonder that the common people lived under such spiritual bondage." (United States History for Christian Schools, Bob Jones University Press)
Not necessarily anti-Catholic:

Making mistakes about Catholics
Criticizing Catholics

non-Catholic perspective:

Can be very worthwhile. e.g. All of a Kind Family

5. Catholic books with authority problems

This comes in two basic varieties:

Cafeteria Catholics
Those who think they're more Catholic than the Pope.

6. Fundamentalism

7. Condescending materials

8. Secular (and its various meanings)

a. Materials with no religious content. e.g. An Egg is Quiet

b. Something with an atheistic bias.
Worth reading on this topic: 10 Books that Screwed up the World by Benjamin Wiker

9. poor pedagogy (teaching philosophy)

10. good intentions aren’t always enough

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Radio Rosary being offered for Dr. Dillon

Immaculate Heart Radio will be offering the rosary aired at 8 PM for Dr. Dillon. Alums may tune in or join via computer:http://www.ihradio.org/

This will continue from now (April 22) through May 2.


I'm assuming this is Pacific Time.

This info is from the official TAC alumni e-mail list. If there are any alums out there who need info about getting on the list, please e-mail me (love2learnmom at gmail dot com) and I'll send you the info.

April Shower of Photos (Well, Maybe Just an Occasional Drizzle)

Spotted outside this afternoon:

Ooops!

Ria was out of town paying a visit to Wyoming Catholic College last week. She had a wonderful visit and it's definitely high on her list. It didn't hurt that a cousin of one of her cousins happened to be visiting at the same time.

Since she was out of the family/internet/etc. loop, we neglected to share with her a lovely tidbit that's shown up in the culture since she left. I only realized it yesterday when I said something about Susan Boyle and Ria asked, "Who?"

If you've also been to Wyoming or a different planet recently, be sure to check out this video and you'll understand. :)

Monday, April 20, 2009

Initial Talk Outline - Choosing Educational Materials

I have loads of material and notes for my talk on Saturday at the GMCHE homeschool conference on choosing educational materials. The hard part is organizing it and keeping it within the allotted time frame. This is my current outline. I've also included some background links that I may quote from in places (or provide URLs in the hand-outs).

Intro: Books are tools - one part of the whole. Parents' job as mediator and advocate is essential.

A. Defining terms (for the purpose of our discussion - not because they're hard to understand, but because they are used in different ways)

1. Catholic

2. anti-Catholic

3. bias

4. educational philosophy

5. educational method

B. Catholic truths relating to education

1. God is the author of all truth. cf. Catechism of the Catholic Church 159

2. The Catholic Church is a sure guide.

3. We are made to learn, but we have a fallen nature. link

4. The virtue is in the mean. link

5. Be not afraid! link

C. Developing your Skeptometer

1. Become a learner yourself.

2. Don't expect perfection (and rejoice in the good!)
"Wise men learn more from fools than fools from the wise." Cato the Elder
3. Some things are black-and-white, but not everything is!

4. Importance of filters - not just for keeping bad things out.
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." Aristotle
5. Recognize your danger spots.
"Most people tend to allow the truth they possess so to dominate their thinking that they see few other truths that place their one truth in perspective and balance it out. There is probably no heresy in the history of the Church that did not have its truth. The problem invariably is that the one truth so took over the heretic's mind that he was committed to cast out any number of other doctrines that clashed with his interpretation of it." (Authenticity by Fr. Thomas Dubay, pg. 34)
D. Mistakes to Avoid

1. arrogance

2. knowledge=virtue

3. old = good, new = bad or vice versa (c.f. C.S. Lewis on old books)

4. clean = good (looking only at the surface)

5. faith vs. reason

"Science can purify religion from error and superstition, religion can purify science from idolatry and false absolutes." Pope John Paul II

E. Things to Remember

1. True, good, and beautiful

2. Dangerous vs. offensive

3. Diversity of the Saints

4. Don't let the experts think for you.

5. Adjust books, programs, etc. to fit you and your child's needs.

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Frankly Speaking on His New "Math Curriculum"


Ten Copycats in a Boat, originally uploaded by stephmanuel1980.

Frank (age 5) is really taken with a book I picked up at St. Vinnie's a few days ago: Ten Copycats in a Boat and Other Riddles. He managed to memorize most of the answers to the riddles after just one reading (even though he doesn't quite "get" all of them yet) and tells me that the book is his math book because it's a math book for beginners and you have to guess things. (This is partly because his next two older siblings have math books with read-aloud word problems that he overhears quite a bit.)

He was completely astonished when (after his big sister read it to him but I hadn't opened it yet) I correctly guessed the answer to the first riddle he asked me: "Ten copycats were sitting in a boat, and one jumped out. How many were left?" :)

One more funny thing. When he had me re-read the book to him last night, he remembered most of the answers, but got a little flubbed up on this one:

"Why shouldn't you tell secrets on a farm?"

He started to stay something about a banana (and you have to admit that bananas are funny things) before he corrected himself. The correct answer, of course, is: "The corn has ears. The potatoes have eyes. And the beanstalk."

Thursday, April 16, 2009

A Little of What We've Been Up to This Week


DSC_4369, originally uploaded by Chez VH.

My parents have been here for the past week and a half. We've had a lovely visit working on projects (my dad is pictured here working with the kids on building "salad tables"), celebrating the Easter Triduum, watching movies and playing games (Five Crowns has been the special favorite for the group).

Ria's been visiting Wyoming Catholic College with a few of her friends.

My parents are leaving in the morning. Thanks for the great visit mom and dad!

More on Dr. Dillon

Please note: I've moved my official tribute list to Dr. Dillon over to the Love2learn Blog and am updating the list regularly there.


TAC Alumni:

Memorial Page on Facebook

Blessed Among Men

Carmie's Conifer Cabin

Cozy Tea-Blue House

A Faithful Rebel

Life in a Nutshell

Small Treasures

Studeo

Future TACers:

A Maiden's Wreath

Tributes from others in Catholic Education:

Thomas More College tribute

Other Bloggers:

Holy Innocents Catholic Church, Long Beach

In the Light of the Law

WDTPRS (Lovely mini-tributes in the comments)

News Reports
(some are repetitive, but there are many worthwhile comments):

Catholic Community Forum

Catholic Culture

Catholic Exchange

Catholic News Agency

Inside Catholic

Irish Times (scroll down)

National Catholic Register

Spero News

Ventura County Star

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

A Day of Tears

We spent quite a bit of our day today tuned into EWTN to watch Archbishop Dolan become Archbishop of New York City. By tuning in a bit early, we also saw his wonderful little interview with Raymond Arroyo. He will be great for this job - he's so humble and so filled with confidence in the truth of the Gospel message.

It's a bittersweet moment too, because it *is* hard to say goodbye, though having these weeks to prepare for this moment have certainly helped - kind of like what he says in "Farewell, Milwaukee". Our prayers and thanks go with him for all that he's done for us. We don't know him personally, but he's made a huge difference even to our own family, just because of the way he manifests God's love and the joy of the Christian message to others. His influence on vocations in the diocese will make a difference for generations!

Though it's hard to say goodbye, it is a wonderful thing to see him take on his new role with so much faith and joy. God Bless him!

On a sadder note, my niece called me this afternoon with tragic news from my alma mater. Thomas Aquinas College's beloved president, Dr. Thomas Dillon, was killed in a car accident this morning. He was in Ireland with his wife for some sort of Catholic educational conference. She was injured, but not seriously. Please pray for him and his family and the entire TAC community. We are all devastated by this loss.

Dr. Dillon has had an amazing fatherly influence on TAC students for decades. Particularly in the years before he became president, he was well-known for his love of playing basketball with the students (somewhere around here I believe I have a photo taken by my husband of Dr. Dillon on the basketball court) and he was an incredible tutor. I only had him for one year - for Junior Philosophy, in which we studied Aristotle's Ethics. It was a crazy year as he was in the process of taking over the presidency of the college and another tutor had to substitute often, but the chaos was totally worth it. I had many fine tutors at TAC, but I never experienced another tutor who was so interested in each and every student and what they thought or wanted to say about a particular topic. He was down to earth and funny and I really loved that class!

When he was taking over the presidency from founding president Dr. McArthur, I had my doubts. McArthur had huge shoes to fill after all! It was a few years ago, when I saw Dr. Dillon and his wife at a fundraising event in Milwaukee that I truly understood the genius of the choice of Dillon as president. He was incredibly humble and completely dedicated to the idea of the college and to *the* truth. He was a man who spent his life building up the Church by preparing young people to live the truth and share it with others.

He had a genuine love for and interest in each of the alumni and what they were up to after TAC. I've always loved the fact that he and his wife made a special effort to attend all the ordinations of alumni priests (there are over 40 now).

My sincerest condolences and love and prayers go out to dear Mrs. Dillon, to the entire Dillon family and to all who are mourning his death.

Please Pray!

Dr. Thomas Dillon, the president of Thomas Aquinas College, was killed in a car accident this morning. Please pray for him and his family and the college community. He will be sadly missed!

At 3 pm Pacific Time today, students, alumni and friends will all be praying together. Please join us if you can.

Monday, April 06, 2009

April Shower of Photos: Caterpillars on Parade

In our usual haphazard fashion, I remembered on Saturday evening that we wanted to make catepillars on Palm Sunday for our little symbolic Holy Week tradition. So I picked up five dozen eggs at the grocery store (fortunately they were on sale!) and we had German pancakes and quiche yesterday AND Gus made a huge batch of lemon curd. Anyway, here are the results:On the side of organization, however, we just got a second fridge and it is happily installed in the basement. I already have Holy Thursday lamb and Easter ham stored in there (and for the first time *ever* was able to purchase more than three gallons of milk at a time!).

Friday, April 03, 2009

April Shower of Photos



I have a little catching up to do, so here are a few photos to start with (not much outdoors yet - it's still chilly here with another threat of snow tonight):

April 1: Music set-up before the Live Stations:

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April 2: A piece from an art show that Ria attended (she had a piece in the show, but this isn't hers):


April 3: Live Stations Practice for Sunday