Monday, October 18, 2010

A Few Photos from our Seminary Tour

originally posted to Chez VH, October 2010



The Staircase, originally uploaded by Chez VH.
I just love this picture. It's one of two staircases on either side of the main seminary entrance.



Staircase to the Cupola, originally uploaded by Chez VH.
Does this look unreal? I have to admit that I was a little hesitant to climb it. I convinced myself, because it's not as "bad" as the Holy Hill tower, but then again, this one is wooden and there's just so much *space* around you! It was well worth it. :)



A Step Back in Time, originally uploaded by Chez VH.
Okay, last picture, I promise. I do have a few more shots on flickr for those who might be interested.

We just loved this old gym at the seminary. Looks like something out of an historic sports film (I'm thinking of Hoosiers in particular) - and it's still in use! Gorgeous!

Sunday, October 17, 2010

A Perfect Day

Originally posted at Chez VH, October 17, 2010 -

 

Cemetery at St. Francis Seminary, originally uploaded by Chez VH.

It wasn't a perfect week, mind you. We worked way too hard last weekend (and before that) in the midst of a bad cold to get our house ready for an appraisal that was extremely disappointing. And, well, there were other things too, but it's more fun to tell you about the good stuff. ;)

The good part started on Friday afternoon on my way home from a doctor's appointment (where I found out that, in fact, I did NOT have pneumonia - hurray!) when I dropped by the library of a neighboring community to check on a book. You see, we had just received a letter that day stating that the book was assumed lost and that we would be expected to pay for it. We had been, in fact, looking for it for a long time and I had begun to suspect that it was sitting on the library's shelf. It was and I was such a happy camper that I stopped by a grocery store for a treat on the way home (since all of the kids had been looking for the book for awhile even though it wasn't their fault). It's not so much the cost of the book as the joy of knowing that, in the midst of all our chaos, we still can keep some important things, like keeping track of library books, somewhat in order.

So, that was an excellent start to the weekend, but I was still feeling sick and way over tired (had only gotten three hours of sleep the night before). John and I decided to rest in front of a movie in our room. The kids decided to play restaurant and thus bring us dinner (Ria was also a "guest" of the restaurant, they brought her food while she relaxed in front of the computer). We were presented with personalized menus a little later and placed our orders. Mine was an appetizer sampler (we asked for one of each of the appetizers - apples, crackers and cheese and deviled eggs), a salad with blue cheese dressing and apples and crustless quiche.

After we placed our orders with head waitress Terri, Kate and Frank came in and announced to us (taking turns saying each word): "This." "Is." "The." "Giants." "Restaurant." (I've obviously been raising them right in the baseball department.)

Although it was a bit chaotic, we were treated to a wide variety of food, which was just what I needed to get a good night's sleep. (Slept nine hours that night!)

Saturday morning, John and I made it to Mass (the feast of St. Margaret Mary - which included an excellent sermon on her role in the church), which was really nice. Then he took Ria for a long driving-practice outing to the bookstore and they got a nice father-daughter visit in at the same time. Gus had a high school boys outing at the seminary for a long afternoon and evening (capture the flag, Mass, dinner, etc). When we dropped him off, we decided to try to say hello to our "adopted" seminarian (who was stationed at our parish last year and we got to know well because we had him over for dinner and English practice regularly - he's from Colombia). He was pleased at the surprise and gave us an in-depth tour of the seminary and grounds. It's a gorgeous place with amazing staircases - including a crazy winding one that goes up into the cupola of the dome (which he was not willing to climb himself, but we all did) and a perfect fall day for exploring the grounds - including the old cemetery.

I'll have to put up a few more pictures after this post, because it was an incredible place to visit (and John got some really neat pictures). (God is good! All the time!)

Then the rest of us headed to Trader Joe's and then to a perfect little beach along the lakefront where we had a picnic (and spent plenty of time at the playground as well) before we picked Gus back up from the seminary.

Oh, yeah, and could I have asked for a better baseball game last night? Go Giants!

Two Great Marian Books for the Month of October

Originally posted at Chez VH in October, 2010 -


The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander

I've long had an appreciation for Catholic teaching on the redemptive value of suffering: that suffering isn't just meaningless and hopeless, but that, united with the sufferings of Christ, good will come out of that suffering. (What's not to like about that?) And yet, I really dislike the phrase "Offer it up!" I'm sure it was intended to be an exhortation of sorts - to encourage people to bring meaning and good out of the troubles in their lives, but so often it comes out as a simple imperative. And what we do with our sufferings is such a personal expression of our faith, that the phrase always seemed trite. To encourage someone else to believe these concepts of suffering takes a loving hand, not a commanding one.

This book offers that loving hand in a very gentle way and by means of Our Lady. Mary brought Christ to the world through her faith, love and humility and we are called to do the same. Here are a few quotes to give you the flavor of it:
Sometimes it may seem to us that there is no purpose in our lives, that going day after day for years to this office or that school or factory is nothing else but waste and weariness. But it may be that God has sent us there because but for us Christ would not be there. If our being there means that Christ is there, that alone makes it worthwhile.

(pg. 60)

We must be swift to obey the winged impulses of His Love, carrying Him to wherever He longs to be; and those who recognise His presence will be stirred, like Elizabeth with new life. They will know His presence, not by any special beauty or power shown by us, but in the way that the bud knows the presence of the light, by an unfolding in themselves, a putting forth of their own beauty.

It seems that this is Christ's favourite way of being recognised, that He prefers to be known, not by His own human features, but by the quickening of His own life int he heart, which is the response to His coming.

(pgs. 62-63)

If such is the beauty of the world to ordinary children, what must it have been to the Mother of God, when her whole being was folded upon the unborn Christ within her?

He was completely her own, utterly dependent upon her: she was His food and warmth and rest, His shelter from the world, His shade in the Sun. She was the shrine of the Sacrament, the four walls and the roof of His home.

Yet she must have longed to hold Him between her hands and to look into His human face and to see in it, in the face of God, a family likeness to herself

Think of that! But perhaps you cannot, unless you happen to be a young priest newly ordained, waiting for the moment when you will hold in your hands the first Host that you have consecrated at your first Mass.

...

Each work of her hands prepared His hands a little more for the nails; each breath that she drew counted one more to His last.

In giving life to Him she was giving Him death.

All other children born must inevitably die; death belongs to fallen nature; the mother's gift to the child is life.

But Christ is life; death did not belong to Him.

In fact, unless Mary would give Him death, He could not die.

Unless she would give Him the capacity for suffering, He could not suffer.

He could only feel cold and hunger and thirst if she gave Him her vulnerability to cold and hunger and thirst.

He could not know the indifference of friends or treachery or the bitterness of being betrayed unless she gave Him a human mind and a human heart.

That is what it meant to Mary to give human nature to God.

He was invulnerable; He asked her for a body to be wounded.

He was joy itself; He asked her to give Him tears.

He was God; He asked her to make Him man.

He asked for hands and feet to be nailed.

He asked for flesh to be scourged.

He asked for blood to be shed.

He asked for a heart to be broken. (pgs. 72-73)

If Christ is formed of our lives, it means that He will suffer in us. Or, more truly, we will suffer in Him.

"And He was made man."

Our Lady saw at once what was meant in her case: supernaturally, He was made herself.

If He is made man in you, He will be made you; in me, me.

It is extremely difficult to lay hold of this fact. It is very hard not to think of a kind of mystical Christ just beside us, or just in front of us, suffering with infinite patience and joy, being obedient, humble, persevering, fulfilling His Father's will.

It is really difficult to realise that if He is formed in our life we are not beside Him but in Him; and what He asks of us is to realise that it is actually in what we do that He wants to act and to suffer. (pgs. 76-77)
I read this on retreat about a month ago (a silent, Ignatian retreat and my first retreat in 20 years - it was wonderful!) because my spiritual director had recommended it and I loved how it tied into the talks on the spiritual exercises and the book I happened to be reading alongside it - Does Jesus Know Us? Do We Know Him? by Hans Urs Von Balthasar.

Through the Year with Mary: 365 Reflections by Karen Edmisten

I love quote books. I've probably got 10 or 12 different ones on my bookshelf. They're lovely for browsing through, "chewing" on a little something (without getting overwhelmed by the whole) and have often lead to discovering new authors and new books of interest.

This is a lovely, simple little book of Marian quotations with very brief reflections (usually simple prayers) - one for each day of the year. The quotes are varied, helpful, encouraging and inspirational. You'll find the usual suspects of course - Pope John Paul II, St. Alphonsus Liguori (who are both particularly known for their Marian spirituality). You'll find quotes from an incredible variety of saints from the early Church Fathers through the most recently beatified (like Blessed John Henry Newman). Of course we also find snippets of wisdom from the Bible, traditional prayers of the Church and the Catechism of the Catholic Church. These more traditional sources are nicely balanced with more modern voices, including Caryll Houselander, Thomas Merton, Flannery O'Connor, Dorothy Day, a very healthy dose of G.K. Chesterton and a few living authors as well - like Archbishop Dolan, Edward Sri and Scott and Kimberly Hahn.

Karen, who is a convert to Catholicism herself, has a unique talent for making this book particularly accessible for those who haven't always had a close relationship with Mary, and so you'll many gentle, helpful quotes for Marian neophytes and non-Catholics. Several are from Martin Luther.

Thank you, my friend, for your lovely work on a beautiful book!!!


Tuesday, October 05, 2010

I'm Still Here...

But I've decided that Studeo has run its course. I'm thinking about starting a new personal blog to replace Studeo (which will not be on Blogger as the editing tools and horrible quantities of spam comments are driving me crazy - which is why I turned the comments off here awhile ago), but for now you can still find me at Love2learn.net and my mostly-quotes-and-photos blog, Love2learn Notebook.