tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12564440.post112320397578552409..comments2023-06-24T16:17:33.189-05:00Comments on Studeo: My Thinking Spot: FYI: Press Release on Bai Macfarlanelove2learnmomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10548471887979257624noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12564440.post-1123900999708621472005-08-12T21:43:00.000-05:002005-08-12T21:43:00.000-05:00That sounds awful, but from my own experience and ...That sounds awful, but from my own experience and reading Together, Forever by Greg Popchak, I know that it takes two to tango, and two for it to fall apart.<BR/>I gave the book to a friend who's husband was straying, and she was talking divorce. She read the book and called, saying, that after a year of counselling, this book was the first time she saw that she had a part in what was happening. She had made him out to be the bad guy and had not looked at the whole relationship.<BR/>I'm not saying Bai is at fault, I'm just saying that something played into it that perhaps, even now, she doesn't see. It's so easy, when there is an affair, to say, he's bad and I'm not, and it's all his fault.<BR/>You know what I mean.Nancy C. Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06169395014931291729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12564440.post-1123518716709801192005-08-08T11:31:00.000-05:002005-08-08T11:31:00.000-05:00I've been on Bai's Yahoo eloop for quite sometime....I've been on Bai's Yahoo eloop for quite sometime. Mention was made of a *possible* affair.<BR/><BR/>I feel for Bai and cannot help but wonder how she is able to live with no income and apart from her children! It's a personal matter but it seems that Bud has completely turned everyone's life upside down for his selfish purposes. He has certainly not taken care of his family as God has instructed men to.Cay Gibsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15353402563821728132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12564440.post-1123253578243504702005-08-05T09:52:00.000-05:002005-08-05T09:52:00.000-05:00Bud isn't commenting on it from what I understand....Bud isn't commenting on it from what I understand. I have tried searching for more details. It sounds like his friends think he went off the deep end (Bai is describing it as a "lapse in character"). I suspect there may be no good answer for most of your questions.love2learnmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10548471887979257624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12564440.post-1123210395064234162005-08-04T21:53:00.000-05:002005-08-04T21:53:00.000-05:00This case is so sad. Have you ever heard Bud's sid...This case is so sad. Have you ever heard Bud's side of the story? I have to wonder what happened, what went wrong, and where is he working full-time now? Why can't she care for their children? Why would the courts assign full time care to a dad who works full time? I can't understand this case without knowing more of the facts, which may never come to public light.Nancy C. Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06169395014931291729noreply@blogger.com